This survey covers cheating and paying all the bills with little to no assistance from your mate.
This is the moment of truth. I want you to see this survey as a mirror you’re looking into. This survey like ALL of our surveys is anonymous. However, this survey will make you reflect and be honest about your love life. This may even help you because this is the first time you will be able to say out loud, (secretly so to speak), My relationship is not healthy and it’s destroying me from within. It’s even starting to diminish your outer appearance as well. This survey is based on infidelity and if you’re a woman, you’re in your masculinity by paying the bills and giving him a soft life.
Some people brag when they know their relationship or marriage is not what it’s cracked up to be. I don’t understand why they do it, Maybe it’s just a social media thing because you can flex more, and create your reality on social media, that’s if most of your followers are strangers. If you flex on family and the people you know who already know your relationship is garbage, they’ll talk about your delusions behind your back. I can understand saving face when you’re asked up close and personal, but to volunteer the lie of happiness, again, is delusional.
Yes, some lie out of embarrassment, only when someone asks, “How’s everything going with you and so and so”, You lie with the straightest face you can muster and say, “Everything is good”, knowing damn well you want to escape the hell you’re in. Ask me how I know.
After you take this survey, you need to figure out what’s your next step to get out of this awful, unhealthy relationship you’re in (if you’re still in it). If for some reason your awful relationship stems from abuse, visit the Domestic Violence Support website for helpful numbers and information. You can take steps to assist with your and your children’s safety.
