I Feel Obligated to Have a Child

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Now, let us begin. Do you believe or still believe having kids is mandatory and you’re under an obligation to have at least one regardless if you want them or not? Are you being pressured by family, friends, a significant other, or a spouse to have children, then this survey is for you.

Message from UI Staff:

You are not obligated to have kids; NEVER allow anyone to convince you otherwise. If you’re wondering if you can handle a child, please give a new mother a break and babysit. Better yet, babysit a toddler. Never listen to anyone when they say, “Your own kids will be different”. The only difference is, you’re stuck with them and cannot return them to their parents because YOU are the parent.

Your life now revolves around your child. I repeat, your life now revolves around your child. If you are a young wife and you’ve yet to have any kids, please wait until you’re closer to thirty (30) years of age. Enjoy life with your (hopefully young) husband. Travel a little. Establish a life plan for when you do decide to have children. If you are too broke to travel, then you damn sure too broke to have kids. That alone will put you closer to poverty, especially women.

Ultimately, it’s your life to live, and I’m just adding my two cents.

I Feel Obligated to Have Children

I Feel Obligated to Have a Child

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Which most closely describes your gender?^*

Which most closely describes your gender?^*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?^*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?^*

Do You Have Children?^*

Do You Have Children?^*

Do you regret having Children?^*

Do you regret having Children?^*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?^*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?^*

Did You Feel Obligated to Have Children?

Did You Feel Obligated to Have Children?

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)

What advice would you give to someone considering having children?

What advice would you give to someone considering having children?

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)^*

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)^*

Do you plan on having children in the future?^*

Do you plan on having children in the future?^*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?^*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?^*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)^*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)^*

As a Child Free individual, what advice would you give to someone considering having children?

As a Child Free individual, what advice would you give to someone considering having children?

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I Feel Obligated to Have a Child

How old are you?*

How old are you?*

Which most closely describes your gender?*

Which most closely describes your gender?*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?*

Do You Have Children?*

Do You Have Children?*

Do you regret having Children?*

Do you regret having Children?*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?*

Did You Feel Obligated to Have Children?

Did You Feel Obligated to Have Children?

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)

What advice would you give to someone considering having children?

What advice would you give to someone considering having children?

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)*

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)*

Do you plan on having children in the future?*

Do you plan on having children in the future?*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)*

As a Child Free individual, what advice would you give to someone considering having children?

As a Child Free individual, what advice would you give to someone considering having children?

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How old are you?^*

How old are you?^*

Which most closely describes your gender?^*

Which most closely describes your gender?^*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?^*

Which race or ethnicity best describes you?^*

Do You Have Children?^*

Do You Have Children?^*

Do you regret having Children?^*

Do you regret having Children?^*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?^*

How do you feel having children has impacted your life overall?^*

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)^*

What are the reasons You don't want or Have Children? (Select all that apply)^*

Do you plan on having children in the future?^*

Do you plan on having children in the future?^*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?^*

Do You Feel Obligated to Have Children?^*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)^*

If you feel pressured to have children, can you specify who's making you feel this way? (Select all that apply)^*